Our mission is to be a psychologically helpful ally - not just a blocker. We are always on the side of the user, working with them, not against them.
Our mission is to be a psychologically helpful ally - not just a blocker. We are always on the side of the user, working with them, not against them.
Porn was messing with my life; my relationships, my career, my health... I wanted to quit. But somehow I couldn't.
I realised that it had become an addiction.
At some level, most addicts don't want to be addicts. But for deep psychological reasons it can feel impossibly difficult to 'just quit'.
No matter how many tools, strategies and support networks we learn and build, there are times when we open our laptops or turn on our phones and... in that moment, we have already lost the fight.
Sure, we could theoretically reach out for support. But as every addict knows, the shame, guilt, despair (and sometimes just the time of night) means we simply cannot.
What we really need is a buddy to step in on our behalf and catch us in that moment. And we need them right there and then.
We need someone to have our backs. Someone who gets it. Someone who can help us make a different choice with kindness and compassion. Someone who will not judge us or make the shame worse.
It may not be a person, but it was created by people who have been through this and who care enough to want to help.
It will be there in those moments, proactively helping make a different choice. It is a hand reached out in support to fellow addicts.
We get it. We've got your back... in the moments when you need it the most.
Our goal is provide your ideal active support as part of your realtime internet experience.
The aim is to identify the exact moment when you start an addictive 'session' and proactively engage with a 'buddy' approach. At the very least, we can offer therapeutically-informed, non-coercive alternatives.
You can choose an alternative, or choose to continue with your porn session. Our goal is to be a buddy, not a 'hard' block. If you really want to watch porn, you'll work around such blockers eventually anyway.
Our priority is to be a therapeutically helpful ally. We are always on your side, working with you, not against you.
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